Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Family is Forever... Nagging!

Why does family always get in the way?
Why must they tell you their feelings constantly?
Why does family insist on you listening to them?
Why can't they just bite their tongue once in awhile?
And why do we always feel the need to care about what
they think?

I just want to live my own life, that's all I ever ask for anymore.. BUT.. dun dun dun.. enter my opinionated family!

Lately I've just wanted to make decisions and have them count for something but once I tell certain people in my family I automatically get either a disgusted face or what I should do instead. I just wish they would hold their tongues and agree with my 100%. I know they have a right to say something and they think since I'm mentioning a portion of my thoughts to them that I want to hear what they think but ummmm, how do I put this nicely.... I DON'T!!! No offense but the only reason I bring things up in my life to people is because everyone thinks I'm so stand offish lately and I don't talk to anyone anymore, soooo I eventually feel bad and throw something out there, well not anymore!

I can't continuously wonder what my family is going to think about my decisions or not make any decisions because they might not agree on them. It takes too much time for me to make a decision let alone worry about what others think!

I just wish they would back off already. Switch to your own lives already. Leave your thinking and thoughts to yourself.

I don't care if I make a mistake and I don't ever care when they make a mistake. Isn't that the beauty of life? To make mistakes and learn from them? Even if I don't make a mistake and everything works out great I did it myself, no one else helped me, just me!

Anyway, that's my input on families for the day.. I love my family but I want my own once in awhile... AND since that's soooo far away, leave me alone! Haha!

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